halloween and beyond

Wow!  The Fall has flown by and I’ve been remiss at sharing what I’ve been up two over the past few weeks.  Our family thoroughly enjoyed Halloween and Thanksgiving and everything in between.  The beautiful Bluegrass weather has been many outdoor festivities possible!  Here’s a photo recap of our last several weeks!

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summer recap

How is it that Labor Day has come and gone?  While we may technically still have a few weeks left, in my mind, summer has concluded.  It has been a busy end of the season for my family.  Here’s what we’ve been up to:

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Celebrating nine years of marriage

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Starting Kindergarten (with no tears by either of us!)

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summer updates

It has been a busy summer at our house!  It is hard to believe that we have almost completed the month of June and a whole month has flown by since my last posts.  Here are some photos to recap what we’ve been up to these last few weeks with our family:

 

An amazing family trip to Hilton Head Island.

 

A lovely marker dedication service for my father.  Friends and family from all over the country came to celebrate and remember an amazing man.

 

Lots and lots of swimming.  It’s been hot!  Plus, my little guy is learning to swim and wants to spend all of his time in the water.

 

Teaching at the Carnegie Center.  How cute is the reading room in Triangle Park?!?  I love those little kiddos!

 

Celebrating my amazing husband on Father’s Day.

 

All of this and some home renovations (pictures coming) and living in lots of dust and disorder.  (Please tell me it will all be worth it!)

 

Hope you are enjoying your summer!

katherine Greene

christmas in july

For those of you following along this summer, you know that it has been a rough summer for our family.  Not to be melodramatic, but I’ve been sick for most of it.  Thanks to new meds, I seem to be getting a little bit better every day.

All of the time stuck in bed meant that I was extra excited to getaway in late July to the Smoky Mountains.  My little boy loves to visit the Inn at Christmas Place in Pigeon Forge, TN and they were having a fun week of Christmas in July festivities.  The easy drive time and relaxing, laid-back atmosphere made it the perfect destination for a few days of fun.  We enjoyed Christmas movies at the pool, milk and cookies with singing Santa, eating out, pizza in our hotel room, outlet shopping and lots and lots of swimming.

Here are a few photos of our fun:

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A little time swimming and shopping (and Christmas cheer) makes all things better!

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one night get-away

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What do you do when you get down?  You get-away—even if it is just a day trip or for one night!

The start of our summer vacation has been full of sick doctor visits and a bit of stress, so it was time for us to hit the road.  Over the weekend, we were in Louisville to celebrate our nephew’s second birthday and we decided to make a mini-trip out of it with an one-night hotel stay.

Sometimes we overthink vacations when we can get so much enjoyment and relaxation from a short trip, even one close to home.  These short mini-vacations can help to hold you over for your next extended trip (ours is in a month!) and its certainly more budget-friendly.

We enjoyed some quality family time in the hotel pool, indulged in room service and crappy hotel television.  We had breakfast at our hotel and did a little relaxed shopping.  It was pure bliss!

What are your favorite mini-getaways?

katherine Greene

bluegrass lovebirds: doris + bill

For those of you living in the bluegrass, I hope that you are enjoying Snowpocalypse 2015 (over 10 inches of snow here)!  Perhaps to warm your heart a bit during this bitter cold snap, we have another installment of the bluegrass lovebirds series.

I am very excited to introduce our next couple, who will celebrate 40 years of marriage in June of this year.  I was thrilled to feature their sweet story to commemorate those 40 wonderful years.  It is my pleasure to introduce…

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Years Together: as of June 28th, 40

First date: 2/23/75; Engaged 3/15/75; Married June 28, 1975

 

Tell us a bit about yourself…

I [Doris] was born in Lexington but moved to Danville when I was 3 weeks old, then to Arlington Heights, Illinois at 12. Graduated from UK for both English/journalism BA and Instructional Design/english MS. Started out at the Kentucky Standard newspaper in Bardstown after college and met Bill (as an adult) soon after. I’ve spent 40 years as a writer, most of it freelance. I taught English Composition at LCC and UK, working with faculty in all disciplines to create web-centric distance learning courses and developed the first completely online Composition sequence. One day I got a call from the College of Education to interview for a new position as the Director of the newly established Ky Center for School Safety. My interest in education technology and timing put me at the forefront of Internet safety. I worked with two Ky Attorneys General to develop a statewide curriculum before stepping down from that position. I have published two books on the topic and am still asked to speak at schools and education conferences. I am currently at work on a book about Bardstown and Nelson County, where my parents grew up and my husband is from.

We have one son, Burr, who turned 37 today. He is a Ph.D in Computer Science and works for DuoLingo, a startup in Pittsburgh. Heras been married to Natalie (Larson) for 12 years. Natalie has an M.F.A in Art and Artist-in-Residence at University of Pittsburgh. We also raised Bill’s two children from a previous marriage, William J. and Tracey Settles Berry. Between them, there are three grandchildren and two great-grandchildren.

Bill was born in Bardstown and was active in sports and choir at Bardstown High Schools. Graduating from the now defunct Ky Southern College in Louisville in Biology, he continued his education at Western Ky University with an MS in Aquatic Biology. He taught at Bardstown High, and was teaching at St. Mary’s college when we married. When he and a college friend opened a remodeling company in Lexington, we moved and he ultimately spent 33 years selling pre-engineered building components. About a decade ago he missed teaching and served as adjunct at BCTC until he retired from both last year.

We enjoy travel, international and domestic. I enjoy reading and gardening, and became a Fayette County Master Gardener in 2012. Bill has been a Southern Gospel fan since his teens and serves as Deacon and teaching Sunday school for Calvary Baptist Church, where we are both members. Bill’s free time is limited as I always have projects for him to work on. In fact, he decided to go back to work part time to cut back those activities.

Bill lived 2 doors from my Aunt/Uncle in Bardstown, and went to the same church as my family, so we knew each other since childhood. However, as he is 4.5 years older there wasn’t a lot of significant interaction. When we met as adults, he knew who I was, but really didn’t know anything about me. We fixed that pretty quickly.

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How did you first meet? Was it “love at first sight” or were your “just friends”?

Doris’ grandparents lived in Bardstown, where Bill grew up. He lived two doors down from my three male cousins, with whom he was friends. Being nearly 4 years older (and one year older than my oldest cousin and sister), I was always trying to horn in on whatever they were doing, not a great start. Many years later, I moved to Bardstown to work for the newspaper and we met at church. We were involved in a Bible study, and one night…February 23 to be exact…we went out afterwards.

Where did you go on your first date?

Feb 23, 1975

We went to La Taberna restaurant in Bardstown for a late snack and drink after Bible study. I think we ended up closing the restaurant and spending until the wee hours on my grandmothers porch talking. I’m not sure we spent a whole day without seeing each other until after we were engaged.

Where did you share your first kiss?

Probably February 23 on our first date.

When did you know that he/she was “the one”?

Oh, maybe two weeks?

Tell us about your engagement proposal…

That’s a tough one, because neither of us can remember there actually being a proposal. A few weeks after we were engaged, we were driving somewhere and Doris said something about there not really being a proposal. Bill probably made it official, but it was so “beside-the-point” then neither of us really recall.

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When and where were you married?

We were married in the Bardstown Baptist Church, where both my parents and my sister were also married. Both our families had attended there for many years. Both sisters and best friend from high school were bridesmaids; Bill’s two best friends from undergrad and Doris’ brother-in-aw were groomsmen.

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Funny story: After our honeymoon when we went to church, I went to the left and he went to the right. Our families had always sat on opposite sides of the sanctuary. We ended up sitting on the left side of the middle.

 

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He Said/She Said

My partner’s best quality is… 

Doris: I can tend to get really intense, and Bill’s sense of humor can stop me from going there.

Bill: An outstanding quality is her organization and ability to get things done.

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The thing about my partner that drives me crazy is… 

Doris: He doesn’t seem to be able to put things back where they belong.

Bill:  In 40 years she hasn’t given up on trying to improve me.

My number one piece of advice about love is…

Doris: Before you get married, make sure your core values are similar. Then the really big stuff you’ll at least be in the same ballpark. Let the little stuff go.

Bill: See your differences as strengths in your union. If you were identical, one of you would be superfluous!

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Congratulations on 40 years of marriage, Doris and Bill!  Wishing your many more years of happiness!

If you haven’t caught up on the 2015 bluegrass lovebirds series, check out other couples here, here and here.  Be sure to check out the 2013 and 2014 couples, as well.

To true love. And celebrating love all month long.

xoxo

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**All images provided by participating couple**

bluegrass gals at the beach

Bluegrass THREADS was thrilled to take a little late-summer break at the beach.  Hilton Head Island is a gorgeous spot, which we highly recommend.  It was fun to sport our maxi dresses, floppy beach hats and oversized sunglasses for some pure summer fun.  It was nice to get-away with the husbands and little guys (seriously, how fun are a one-year old and almost four-year old to travel with—they kept us all entertained!)  Here we are dipping our feet in the ocean upon arrival.  Pure bliss!

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Now, we are back and refreshed for fall!  How has your summer been?

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